I’ve written about red flags before, but I recently realised it is time to write about abuse and how to recognise it. Someone asked me how I choose topics to write about. When it comes to topics like abuse and red flags, I mostly write because I hear horror stories from my girlfriends. I write […]
Category: Relationships
Adult Friendships – the Struggle is Real
There’s one topic I’ve been talking a lot about in real life and people seem to relate, it’s adult friendships – the struggle is real. I don’t know about you, but I’ve always had one friend I would stick by for most of my life. Someone I would sit with at all of my classes, […]
Expectations in Dating and How to Set Them
It’s essential to know your expectations in dating and how to set them. Why? Because then you won’t settle for less, you’ll communicate your needs better, and you’ll set yourself up for success. Dating can be challenging. The better you know what you want – the easier it will be. How to Communicate Expectations I […]
Learning How to Set Boundaries
Learning how to set boundaries was one of my key lessons in 2022. I read books on boundaries, I talked to a counsellor about it, and I spoke to my friends about it. I did my best to learn not only how to set boundaries, but also how to implement consequences once those boundaries are […]
Red Flags in Christian Dating
I’ve spoken about red flags in romantic relationships, but as a Christian, I thought it was time to also talk about red flags in Christian dating. Picking a partner is one of the most important decisions we’ll make in life. The person you choose to spend your life with will either support you or bring […]
Red Flags in a Romantic Relationship
It’s time to discuss red flags in a romantic relationship again! I’ve mentioned how to recognise them before and wrote a list of 9 red flags. However, even then I knew that I could go on and on and it was simply too triggering to keep going. Before I start, let’s get one thing straight. […]
Questions to Ask on a First Date
First dates can be really nerve-wracking, so I’ve compiled a list of questions to ask on a first date. I have to be honest, I haven’t dated much. Or, to be even more honest, I’ve gone on dates with two men and both of those turned into serious relationships. But, I learned a lot in […]
10 Signs That You’re in a Healthy Relationship
It can be hard to see a relationship clearly when you’re infatuated, but I’ve written down 10 signs that you’re in a healthy relationship. We all deserve to be loved and treated well. Sometimes, especially in the beginning stages of a relationship, we get so excited about someone that we forget to look out for […]
Season of Singleness – How to Do It Well
We’re created to seek connection, so the topic of the season of singleness – how to do it well can be one that people want to avoid. If you’re desperately trying to get out of this season, why would you want to know how to do it well? Here’s the reason why I think you […]
Setting Expectations in the Early Stages of Dating
Setting expectations in the early stages of dating is the starting point for good communication. You’re just getting to know someone, investing your time, and as two individuals come together – there are bound to be differences in expectations. Some people only date with marriage in mind and want to know that your core values […]