I started 2024 with the realisation that I still don’t know how to respond to people who don’t know that the word “no” is a full sentence. What do I mean by that? I mean that I don’t owe anyone explanations. I don’t owe information about my personal life. I don’t owe anyone anything that […]
Why You Should Stay
I hope nobody needs to read this, but if you do – I hope this helps you find a reason why you should stay. It’s the holiday season which can be very cheerful or painfully lonely. Family drama, broken relationships, non-existent relationships – it all comes to the forefront. Everyone’s social media is flooded with […]
Surviving Your 20s
Now that I’ve just turned 30, I thought I’d share about surviving your 20s. My twenties were wild. But not in the way you might think. I didn’t spend my free time partying and going out, I didn’t really have much free time. I spent years working 30-40 hours a week to put myself through […]
Questions to Ask Yourself When Dating
I think there are a lot of questions to ask yourself when dating, but I narrowed it down to my top 10. These are the questions I wish I knew to ask when I was in my first relationship. These are also questions I wish my friends who are in toxic relationships asked themselves. When […]
Life After Trauma
I thought it’s time to write about life after trauma for a couple of reasons. Firstly, people who haven’t experienced trauma struggle to relate. Secondly, I’ve felt like people have questioned my certain decisions because they don’t see the behind-the-scenes. So, here’s a look at what life has been like now two years after certain […]
Why I Want to Elope
I’ve been getting some questions and opinions and decided to share why I want to elope. First, let’s address the elephant in the room. I know that traditionally eloping meant you run away without telling anyone. Times have changed. Besides, what am I supposed to tell people when they see my engagement ring and ask […]
Why It Matters Who You Surround Yourself With
I recently spoke to a friend who got married not long ago and really understood why it matters who you surround yourself with. The friend said she loves married life, but people keep telling her “Just wait”. I was glad to hear she refuses to allow that kind of talk into her life . She […]
My First Year at a New Church
I decided to write about my first year at a new church for a few reasons. Firstly, I don’t church hop. The last church I went to, I was there for 10 years. The one before that – 10-15 years. And I’m only 29 so you do the maths. I left the first church because […]
Things To Do In Klaipeda
If you’re looking for things to do in Klaipeda – you’ve come to the right place. I spent the first 18 years of my life living there, and recently took my fiance there, so I had to act like a tourist guide. I’ll tell you about places to visit, as well as places to eat […]
How to Know You’ve Met The One
If you’re wondering how to know if you’ve met the one, I’ll start by saying that I don’t believe in soulmates. I don’t believe there is just one person for each of us and if we don’t find them we’re doomed for loneliness. I believe we all have free will and freedom of choice. It’s […]